Divorce Mediation

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Our Divorce Mediation Services

Divorce is never easy, but it doesn’t have to be a battle. At Mather & Company, we offer divorce mediation services that prioritize cooperation, clarity, and respectful resolution. For couples navigating the end of a marriage, mediation provides a meaningful alternative to traditional litigation—one that allows both parties to maintain more control over the outcome and work toward solutions that reflect their unique needs and values.

Led by Gavin Mather, a certified family law mediator and experienced family lawyer based in Comox, our team is here to help separating couples find common ground. Whether you’re addressing asset division, parenting arrangements, or support issues, we’re committed to guiding you through the process with professionalism and compassion.

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What Is Divorce Mediation?

Divorce mediation is a voluntary, confidential process where a neutral third party—called the mediator—helps spouses resolve the key legal and practical issues of their separation. Unlike going to court, mediation focuses on open communication, mutual respect, and problem-solving.

The goal of mediation is not to “win” but to reach agreements that work for both sides. This collaborative approach can significantly reduce stress, cost, and conflict, especially when children are involved.

At Mather & Company, mediation sessions can be conducted in-person at our Comox office or virtually, depending on what works best for your schedule and comfort level. Whether you arrive with or without legal representation, our process is designed to be inclusive, supportive, and focused on resolution.

Common Issues Resolved in Divorce Mediation

Every divorce is different, but the topics most often addressed in mediation include:

  • Division of Property and Assets: Determining who keeps what, how debts will be handled, and how to fairly divide shared belongings and financial accounts.
  • Spousal Support: Clarifying if one party is entitled to financial support, how much, and for how long.
  • Parenting Arrangements: Creating a workable parenting plan that outlines custody, access, and how decisions will be made about the children.
  • Child Support: Establishing fair and legally appropriate child support payments based on income and care arrangements.

Mediation offers the flexibility to address both legal issues and personal matters that may not be easily handled in court, such as family dynamics, future communication strategies, or even how to talk to children about the separation.

Why Choose Mediation Instead of Going to Court?

Many separating couples choose mediation over litigation because it offers numerous benefits:

Less Adversarial

Court proceedings can be stressful and combative. Mediation helps reduce conflict by encouraging respectful conversation and cooperative problem-solving.

Faster Resolutions

Court processes often take months or even years. Mediation is typically much quicker, allowing you to move forward with your life sooner.

Lower Legal Costs

Mediation can be significantly more cost-effective than litigation. You spend less time in court and can often reach agreements in fewer sessions.

More Control Over the Outcome

You and your spouse—not a judge—make the final decisions. This often leads to more creative and flexible outcomes that suit your family’s needs.

Confidential and Private

Court cases become part of the public record. Mediation, on the other hand, is completely confidential, allowing you to maintain your privacy during a difficult time.

The Mather & Company Approach

At Mather & Company, we approach divorce mediation with empathy, professionalism, and a deep understanding of both the legal and emotional aspects of separation.

Gavin Mather is a Law Society-accredited family law mediator with extensive experience helping clients resolve family matters outside of court. His style is calm, supportive, and solution-oriented. Whether you’re on good terms with your spouse or struggling to communicate, Gavin creates a safe and neutral space where meaningful progress can be made.

We guide couples through the process step-by-step, ensuring both parties feel heard and that the final agreement reflects your rights and long-term interests. We’re also happy to work alongside other professionals—such as lawyers, financial advisors, or therapists—as needed to support a well-rounded resolution.

Who can benefit from a Divorce Mediator?

Mediation is ideal for separating couples who:

  • Want to avoid court and resolve matters more peacefully
  • Are willing to communicate and make compromises
  • Have concerns about the cost and length of litigation
  • Share children and want to reduce conflict for their family
  • Value privacy and want to keep their matters out of the courtroom

Even if you and your spouse don’t agree on everything, mediation can still be a powerful tool for resolving your differences with the help of a skilled neutral facilitator.

What Happens After Mediation?

Once agreements are reached in mediation, we help you turn those decisions into formal legal documents. These can include:

  • Separation Agreements
  • Parenting Plans
  • Spousal and Child Support Arrangements

You can then choose to have these documents reviewed or filed in court to become legally binding. If further legal advice or representation is required, Mather & Company is able to assist you or refer you to outside counsel if needed.

Ready to Begin?

If you’re considering divorce mediation in Comox, Courtenay, or anywhere in the Comox Valley or across BC, Mather & Company is here to help. We offer a free initial phone consultation to discuss your needs and explain the process.

Visit us at:

306 – 1819 Beaufort Ave.
Comox, B.C. V9M 1R9
Call: 250-339-2902
Email: admin@matherandcompany.ca

Let’s find a better path forward—together.